1. Don't always get caught up in the emotional validation others give you. Only you can make yourself consistently better. A healthy relationship lifts you upward, while someone who only knows how to coax you will eventually drag you down.
2. Every minute you dwell on something is a minute of joy wasted. Over-sensitivity and internal struggle are, in essence, self-punishment. Let go—nothing is worth carrying in your heart forever.
3. Accept your ordinary self, but don't give up on striving for something extraordinary. Most people start from an ordinary place; what's truly frightening is when you're unwilling to be mediocre yet keep comforting yourself that being ordinary is valuable.
1. 不要总沉迷别人给你的情绪价值，能让你一直变好的只有你自己，舒服的关系拉着你往上走，只会哄你的人早晚会拖垮你。
2. 你纠结一分钟，就浪费一分钟的快乐，过度敏感和内耗，本来就是对自己的惩罚，想开点，没什么事值得你一直放在心上。
3. 接受自己的普通，也别放弃拼出不一样的可能，大多数人都是平凡起步，可怕的是你明明不甘平庸，还一直安慰自己平凡可贵。
2. Every minute you dwell on something is a minute of joy wasted. Over-sensitivity and internal struggle are, in essence, self-punishment. Let go—nothing is worth carrying in your heart forever.
3. Accept your ordinary self, but don't give up on striving for something extraordinary. Most people start from an ordinary place; what's truly frightening is when you're unwilling to be mediocre yet keep comforting yourself that being ordinary is valuable.
1. 不要总沉迷别人给你的情绪价值，能让你一直变好的只有你自己，舒服的关系拉着你往上走，只会哄你的人早晚会拖垮你。
2. 你纠结一分钟，就浪费一分钟的快乐，过度敏感和内耗，本来就是对自己的惩罚，想开点，没什么事值得你一直放在心上。
3. 接受自己的普通，也别放弃拼出不一样的可能，大多数人都是平凡起步，可怕的是你明明不甘平庸，还一直安慰自己平凡可贵。
